Topics of interest

Simply click the area you’re interested in from the list below to see specifics! I want to make this easy for you, but you’ll earn major brownie points if you scroll through and read everything.

Who I see

Doubles/Duos

On kink & BDSM

Screening, Deposits, and Cancellations

How to plan for our date

What to expect on our date

Locations

Touring

References


Who do you see?

I am most interested in intimate and connected GFE dates with people 25 and over. If you are seeking a truly luxurious experience, drinking in each other's company, and enjoying the best that life offers, then we'll be a perfect match. I do not discriminate based on race, ethnicity, country of origin, gender, gender presentation, sexual orientation, or ability. If you do need special accommodations, please do let me know ahead of time.

I love to spend time with women, couples, trans and gender non-conforming folks as well, so please don’t hesitate to reach out if you’d like to see me either on your own or with a partner.

For couples: I absolutely love and truly enjoy the trust and playful nature o f sharing in play with you and your partner. For couples, please add $200 to all rates. I require verification information for both partners, and all couples meetings must be a minimum of two hours.


on duos and doubles:

Why settle for one smart and gorgeous babe when you can have two?

Please inquire within. 


Kink & BDSM:

Are you new to kink or maybe you are seasoned player? Looking to learn and push yourself further into the depths of complex play? I'm a devilish Domina who loves to take control, my interests vary broadly and there are too many to list.  To give you a taste I flourish when it comes role play, tease and denial, cuckold fantasy as well as pegging. When contacting please let my assistant know what your interests are and we will go from there. I am not available for submissive play, I am primarily a Domina, sensual to strict, but not a submissive.


Screening, Deposits, & Cancellations:

Screening:

Security and privacy are essential for us both to establish a safe, open, and honest dialogue. As an independent practitioner it's necessary for my safety and security that I verify everyone with whom I may meet. With that said, my discreet and painless screening process can be done through my contact form and with my trusted assistant, Alicia, at arabellesassistant@protonmail.com Your privacy is my number one priority and any information you share with either Alicia, or myself, will be treated with the utmost confidentiality and respect.

Deposits:

I require deposits of $100.00 for sessions up to 4hrs. Deposits for sessions 6 hrs and longer are $1000. Deposits are non-refundable, they can be sent in the form of Amazon, Lyft, or Hotels.com Gift Cards to arabellesassistant@protonmail.com. When I say “yes” to you, I say “no” to others; a deposit shows me that you are just as serious about our time together as I am, and reserves your space exclusively on my. calendar.

The remainder of the rate due for my time is always cash only.

Cancellations:

Should you need to cancel our date and do so with less than 48 hours notice, 50% of the cost of the date booked will be required to remain in good standing and see me in the future.


Planning for our date:

Please thoroughly read my website before contacting me. Most questions you have about my sessions can be found within. I would rather we spend our time getting to know each other and planning our session.

 All emails are responded to within 24 hours. 

Please note... I live a very full and scheduled life. I am not able to accommodate same day appointments unless I'm touring. I take great care in my appearance and pride myself on my manners and decorum. As such, I expect the same from you. The best way to get on my good side is to treat me with the respect and courtesy that a lady deserves. When I say “yes” to you, I am saying no to others. 


What to expect on our date:

I really enjoy getting to know you on a very personal level through shared experiences! I much prefer unrushed, longer dates that involve public time, outings, meals, and activities that let each of us show where our interests and passions lie.

While you may have seen me playing a character in a number of adult films, those films are not an accurate depiction of the time we’ll be spending together. Those films depict me fully in the light of fantasy, and my reality is far different from what you see on the screen. I’m what’s known as a girlfriend experience (GFE) provider, and what that means is that intimacy, both mental and physical, are incredibly important to me. I’m kind, quick-witted, funny, supportive, and truly interested in you as a person. I want to spend time together discovering our shared interests, enjoying amazing meals, and having conversations that truly bring us closer together.

As stated in the Kink/BDSM area, I am very open to being your Domina and Mistress, and am more than happy to make that part of our time together. I’m however not submissive, and I don’t offer experiences outside of what’s been mentioned here. If you want to get a better grasp on what I think makes for an ideal excursion, please see my Experience page and see some of the ideas I’ve come up with there.


Location:

When I’m not on tour, I call Oakland, California home. I’m more than happy to join you at your high-end hotel or private residence for outcall in San Francisco, Oakland, Emeryville, Berkeley, and other cities in The Bay Area.

Incall is also available while I’m home,and it’s a private upscale space conveniently located in Oakland. Once our session is booked and confirmed, you’ll receive further information regarding my incall location.


Touring:

All of my touring cities and dates are listed on my Tour page. Please note if I'm not touring your city I'm always available to flown directly to you for meetings 6hrs and longer, airfare cost will be included in your deposit. International travel will require airfare and lodging. 


References:

I am more than happy to provide references. However, I cannot continue to provide more than five references if I have not met with you since the referrals, or if it has been more than 6 months since our last date. When I meet with you regularly, I am happy to oblige as much as possible.